车东[Blog^2]

答案
√ 到原始森林去
你对感情很执著，但比较自我

√ 到有水的地方去
爱情对你来说比生命还重要

√ 待在冷气房
你是一个容易动情的人

√ 吃冰
感情来的快去的也快

√ 去寒冷的国家
爱情对你来说可有可无

其实更科学的一些测试：16PF测试，我是INTJ型

我的Enneagram Test- The Riso-Hudson Type Indicator (Version 2.0) 9项得分：
7 Type 1: The Reformer. The rational, idealistic type.
4 Type 2: The Helper. The caring, nurturing type.
4 Type 3: The Motivator. The adaptable, success-oriented typ
4 Type 4: The Artist. The intuitive, reserved type.
5 Type 5: The Thinker. The perceptive, cerebral type.
3 Type 6: The Skeptic. The committed, security-oriented type
4 Type 7: The Generalist. The enthusiastic, productive type.
2 Type 8: The Leader. The powerful, aggressive type.
3 Type 9: The Peacemaker. The easygoing, accommodating type.

Type 1 和Type 5还真是比较像我，从这几年的工作成果来看：也大部分是改进型的工作。

Healthy loop controlled by Basic Desire:
对我来说比较好的流程是：
Need to be right -> seek truth -> do the right thing -> Need to be right

In the healthy state, the need to be right induces Type Ones to seek truth and do the right thing. When Ones are doing the right thing, the need is satisfied and a balance is reached.

In the average state, when Ones' are not working hard to seek the truth and do the right thing, the need to be right increases, which helps Ones to again work hard to seek the truth. Thus the balancing loop can help Ones to recover.

Unhealthy loop controlled by Basic Fear:
比较反感被别人命令/控制：

Fear of being condemned -> correct others -> do the right thing -> Fear of being condemned

In the unhealthy state, the basic fear of being condemned can cause Type Ones to correct and condemn others first as a defense, which is often not the right thing to do, which further increases Ones' basic fear. The cycle continues to build up.

Insight:
个人戒条：不要过于“好为人师”，多从自身找问题，这样会有助于减轻被控制的感觉，这样更能把好事做对……
We can see from the diagram that a way to help break the control of the basic fear is to weaken the unhealthy loop. Ones can refrain from correcting others and start examining self for truth, which will help Ones to do the right thing, and reduce the fear of being condemned.